The problem of unwanted animals and a few helpful suggestions (A cross post)

Here’s something I posted in Petfinder.my a while back.  Reread it and wondered why I didn’t post it here instead; must’ve had a bad coffee that day.

We’ve been doing the whole ‘rescuing’ animals things for a while and over the years we’ve learned a few things. Before I share, please realize I mean no offence to anyone and these are merely my opinions.

Firstly, the word ‘rescuing’ is in itself somewhat inappropriate. Over the years, I’ve come to see that not all animals need saving. They are perfectly content to roam and hunt, play and rest, mingle and take their chances with other less friendly cats etc. However, this natural life also leads to breeding and unwanted kittens. As a mother myself, it’s hard for me to see mummy cats being chased by amorous males and kittens, starving and ill, killed by territorial males or stray dogs. Aging toms sporting cauliflower ears and mange also pull at my heart strings. We don’t intervene to rescue them but because we can do a little something to help.

Secondly, not all animals want our help. When we first started, we idealistically imagined finding loving homes for every last cat. We soon learned that while we can neuter every animals that has the luck (or misfortune as some may see it) to cross our path, some are meant to return to the streets for either extreme fear of people or just general inability to live in close proximity with so many other cats. Before we were willing to accept what the animals wanted to teach us, we suffered stressed cats, a few noisy quarrels and sleepless nights trying to conjure money from thin air to finance our obstinance. Now, we know that we can only do so much and taking our cues from the individual cats is as important as doing the right thing.

Finally, try not to criticize what someone else is doing especially when you know their intentions are good. Unless you can do it better for them. To sit and moan is to lose hope. Every individual life means something. While I don’t recommend remortgaging your property to save one animal, common sense being a much beloved trait of mine, every little bit counts.

Hence, if every concerned person once a year, instead of bemoaning the sad fate of the starving kitten, picked it up and paid for some basic medical care, a microchip and a desexing operation (at worst spending around RM200), things would pick up pretty quickly. And if said people did this twice a year, the positive impact would be doubled. I am so positive that individuals are what will turn the tide and I wish more would get started.

If we then combine this effort with a little record keeping (say an online catalogue) we could measure our efforts and maybe even impress city councils into supporting their people and not negating our efforts by culling strays.

What can I say? I’m an optimist :)

Adoption Update: Massimo

Back in 2010, I fostered a tiny butterball who came to be called Massimo after the chef in Restaurant Makeover. Cian begged and beeged for us to keep him and still asks after him to this day. To be honest, had I been less busy (with the mad husky foster dog and settling into a new house etc) I would’ve relented.  He was so so so so so so cute. Did I mention adorable and gorgeous too? When we found him, he was barely 3 weeks old, helpless and completely dependent.  But it all soon changed and I wear I have never seen a more attractive dog in my life.

He was eventually rehomed and his lovely family still send photos to keep up posted of his progress. These usually make me tear up a little as a part of me still wishes I had found a way to keep him.  However, he has a wonderful family who love him and I need to stop being greedy.

Here is the link to Massimo’s ad in Petfinder.my

Gorgeous or WHAT??? Thanks Audrey and Mun for taking such wonderful care of our precious pup.

An Interview: Pia Zain

We’ve been doing this a while now and I thought it’s be nice to go back and talk to a few of our adopters.  There have been so many good people (you know who you are ;) and we thank you ALL) but we want to start with Pia, for Kai was especially dear to us and we worried a while no one would ever see his magic and appeal. Pia is also a great cook and vegetarian, her blog is inspiring (or drool inducing if you’re a foodie like we are).

Tell us a bit about yourself.

Im a multi-cultural Malaysian who has been living here (this time around) for about 7 – 8 years. I worked in human rights and gender issues, as well as being the producer of a theatre company. But I am now changing my life and embracing my true passion – cooking! I adore animals – always had them growing up, and for the first five years or so while in KL, really missed the company of a cat. But then, fate and luck and love gave me PutPut and Kai and life feels very complete.

How many cats do you have and can you tell us a bit about them?

I have two cats.The first, I found under a car in Bangsar outside my brother-in-law’s house. She is grey, fluffy, and was tiny enough to fit in the palm of my hand when I found her. I advertised for someone to adopt her (because I thought I didnt want the responsibility of a cat at that time in my life) … but everyone who answered my advert was not “good” enough. Finally, my sister got frustrated, and told me to just accept the fact that I had been adopted by this little creature! My life has never been the same. I named her Putri Bising Manja Sayang because she was so tiny that I thought she needed a big name to compensate! But we call her PutPut and even though she is quite scared of humans (I think she was abused before I found her), she is incredibly manja, very sweet tempered, incredibly intelligent and quite bising. She has her quirks, but loves to sit and watch the birds from my bed, and is the best cicak catcher I have ever met.I felt that PutPut was a bit lonely with just me for company, and so after about six months, decided to adopt a companion cat for her. I went to Pet Epicure because I knew that not only did they have rescued animals for adoption, but also because I knew that they really interacted with each and every animal. They knew their personalities, their idiosyncrasies, whether or not they got on well with other cats / children, etc. I had two very specific desires for my second cat – I wanted him to be able to live in an apartment and I needed him to get along with PutPut. I explained the kind of character I was looking for to Olivia and Alicia, and they took a while to consider. When they suggested Kaiser (as he was called then), I went to meet him and adored him on sight. Not only do Pet Epicure know the personalities of each of their animals they put up for adoption, but they also know the stories of how they got there. Kai found his way to Alicia’s door in a rainstorm. And he too was tiny – and was adopted by a female cat who had lost her own kittens. He is a gorgeous brown tabby, with the hugest green eyes. Very very loving. He was tested for FIV and neutered before I adopted him (a practice I completely agree with), and I took him home a few weeks later. I renamed him Kai Very Manja Sayang – and he is exactly that. My friend Kit says that Kai was napping when they handed out the intelligence gene, so he got double of the love gene. He adores everyone – loves being with people, plays like a kitten, is incredibly patient with children, and is endlessly fascinated by visitors. He is happiest sleeping in the arms of a friendly person.

What influenced you to adopt your cats?

I missed the companionship of cats, and I was lucky enough to find PutPut … who adopted me! I have never had “full breed” cats – always adopted. (I have a bumper sticker which says “My favourite breed is rescued.”) I believe they are healthier, stronger, and more of a mix. I would rather give a home to an animal in need rather than an animal bred to be bought. Also, I feel  that animals who are up for adoption have a special kind of love.

What do you think the negatives are with adopting?

I have never encountered a negative in adopting from the sources I have used. Adoption is opening your heart to a creature who needs it. Its a satisfying and joyful interaction.

What would you tell someone who was connsidering adopting a pet?

Be clear about what your expectations are, and what you can give the animal. Know that it is a lifetime commitment, and that your life from now on must factor in the needs of the animal as well as yourself. But know that given all of this, adopting an animal is one of the most soul satisfying and joyful acts in life. It is pure joy and happiness, love and comfort. It is a wonderful and humbling experience to have a sentient creature living with you and loving you.

For Adoption: OSCAR

Dacshund x Chihuahua

Looking for Lurve

Sometimes you meet a creature, and you form a connection. One such creature is Oscar.  He carves a niche for himself in your heart and home despite your best intentions to be detached and professional.

This tubocharged dynamo has tonnes of energy, which he will invest in escaping UNLESS he is with people. He adores people. Truly. We are wishing for him a home with an elderly retired couple who want a cuddly dog that walks gently on the leash or family with young children who will play with him and teach him tricks.

Oscar is special and deserves a forever home where his strengths won’t be held against him and where his faults will be managed kindly.  Please help us help Oscar find his happy ending.

Family comes in all shapes and sizes

Thanks Dr Susanna.  Made me SMILE!

New Opening Hours

Please note our new opening hours.

We will be closed on MONDAYS and PUBLIC HOLIDAYS. Tuesday to Friday, we will operate from 9.30am til 5.30pm and on weekends, we will be open from 9.30am to 4pm.

Farewell Percy

Some weeks ago, Percy found peace.  After an emotional final 48hours, he left us after being visited by Katarina, Lydia, Annabelle and being completely doted on by our household.  Even though we understood it was time, we wept.

We would like to thank all the people who came forward to help and offer advice.  Our time with Percy has shown us that there are so many caring people in the world and help is just round the corner if we would but seek it.

Here are some photos of Percy’s final days with us.  Thank you Percy for all the lessons and love.  You will always be a teacher, brave one.

Percy’s Progress

Percy has been with us little over a month now and if there’s one thing I can say for certain, it’s that he is a teacher.  Everyday, I’m learning something new from him and some of these lessons are hard to swallow.  I like progress; gradual but continuous.  I like checking tasks of a list.

Percy’s progress, if it can be called that, is erractic and unpredictable.  The list of things I can do for him, endless.  At first, he began getting stronger and standing longer.   I was so pleased and thought maybe he’d be able to walk one day.  These last ten days, he’s been lying down all the time.  Yesterday, I noticed the beginnings of a presure sore.  I have worked so hard to fix the few he had when he fist arrived and now we’re back to pressure sores again!

On the other hand, he loves his wheelchair.  He was, initally, most bemused by our efforts.  Lifting, slotting limbs into holes and clipping buckles galore.  Now, he happily trots round the garden and interacts with the other dogs and the kids.  But without it, he is …… completely immobile.  Did I make a mistake introducing him to the wheelchair?  Has it made his take the easy path and lose hope of walking on his own steam?

The whole issue of bedding and bandages is also every evolving.  Not sure how they are connected?  I never would have guessed too but I am learning fast.  At first, because he could stand and drag himself about, it was imperative to protect the bits that were getting injured from being scraped around on the floor.  They also had to be changed frequently because the damage to his spine meanst he is permanently curved in such a way that he can almost never urinate without getting his front legs.  This also meant he needed heavy, non-slip bedding.  Two types of, so as prevent sores from lying on one type of surface all day, all night.

Now he has sores where his skinny legs slot into the wheelchair harness.  And because he’s not dragging himself around as much, he’s wetting himself and his bed more frequently.  IThe latex mattress is ruined.  t’s all well and good washing towels but no one wants to lie in piss soaked bedding so we’ve not added plastic bathroom mats that are slightly raised so the liquid will drain.  But it’s not really comfy so there’s the layer of spongy non slip mat that drains but is a little softer too.  Now, he’s not getting bandaged as much unless he’s in his wheelchair but it has still gotta be tough enough to take being dragged around on the floor.  It goes back to the curved spine which means his legs cannot go in to support straps because he then losed balance and ends up almost rigweltered.

So where, the progress you say?  Not sure.  He fur started growing back at first but now he skin has erupted into some manic massive acne type reaction.  Granted its been lookign better these last few days but then again….

With Percy, everytime I start to think, OK I’ve got it covered.  I can handle this. Something changes.  All I can say is thank goodness for his physiotherapist and acupuncturist.  Their support and advice is invaluable.  But the friendship and understanding is what has kept me going.

The only rewards are Percy’s gentle licks and gentle acceptance of all the things we’re throwing at him.

Our Very First Contest

We are running a contest on FB to get more likes.  We are hoping this will alllow us to reach more people so we can promote our adoptables.  Please help by liking it on FB and getting your friends to do it too.

Percy (who was Fritz) Update

So much has happened and I am still digesting, but I wanted to share this collage so you can see him.